for my family.
the rudest comment i’ve encountered was someone who was complaining about how all doctors drive luxury cars, flaunting their wealth. when i noted that my dad didn’t have a luxury car i was told my dad “didn’t have to have 8 kids either”. no, my parents didn’t have to raise and educate 8 children; but then again, having 8 luxury cars is very, very boring. and they’re not really great vehicles for camping trips. and they won’t hike or run with you or give you grandkids or support you when you’re older.
the best things in life aren’t things.